I’m addicted to watching gay porn even though I’m straight

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M addicted to watching gay porn even though I’ve always identified as straight.

It turns me on like nothing else, and I never have the same feeling when watching straight porn any more.

I’m a 34-year-old man and until now I had never questioned my sexuality.

All my relationships have been with women, and while I’ve always been sexually curious, I had never even considered the idea of sleeping with a man before.

But one day when I stumbled across a porn video with two men, I decided to give in to an urge.

As I watched it I felt a burning desire that I’d never felt before and ever since I haven’t been able to get enough.

Does this mean that I could be gay?

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DEIDRE SAYS: For many people, sexuality can be very fluid, and it’s not uncommon to be attracted to someone of your own gender at some point.

While labels aren’t always helpful, as for many people sexuality is neither black nor white, it could be possible that you are bisexual.

My support pack, Bisexual Questions, will help you think this through.

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